And Also...

I wanted to add:  I tried to say that when people expressed their negative opinion respectfully, that was fine.  I didn't go into too much depth about that, and I'm tempted, soooooo tempted, to go back to make sure people understand that I was calling out the nastiness, not the disappointment, not the negative feelings.  But I won't go back.  Or should I?  No, there's probably already ten new posts that will just make me angry.  Repeat:  It's not worth it.  It's not worth it.